Calling in : how to start making change with those you'd rather cancel / Loretta J. Ross.
"In 1979, Loretta Ross was a single mother who’d had to drop out of Howard University. She was working at Washington, DC’s Rape Crisis Center when she got a letter from a man in prison saying he wanted to learn how to not be a rapist anymore. At first, she was furious. As a survivor of sexual violence, she wanted to write back pouring out her rage. But instead, she made a different choice, a choice to reject the response her trauma was pushing her towards, a choice that set her on the path towards developing a philosophy that would come to guide her whole career: rather than calling people out, try to call even your unlikeliest allies in. Hold them accountable -- but do so with love. Calling In is at once a handbook, a manifesto, and a memoir -- because the power of Loretta Ross’s message comes from who she is and what she’s lived through. She’s a Black woman who’s deprogrammed white supremacists, a survivor who’s taught convicted rapists the principles of feminism. With stories from her five remarkable decades in activism, she vividly illustrates why calling people in -- inviting them into conversation instead of conflict by focusing on your shared values over a desire for punishment -- is the more strategic choice if you want to make real change. And she shows you how to do so, whether in the workplace, on a college campus, or in your living room. -- Provided by publisher.
Record details
- ISBN: 9781982190798
- ISBN: 1982190795
- Physical Description: v, 271 pages ; 22 cm.
- Publisher: New York : Simon & Schuster, 2025.
- Copyright: ©2025
Content descriptions
Bibliography, etc. Note: | Includes bibliographical references (pages 245-257) and index. |
Formatted Contents Note: | Prologue -- How I learned to call in -- The uses and abuses of call outs -- Be strategic -- Model the world we desire -- Starting with the self -- Calling in techniques -- Creating a call in culture -- Redemption after a call in -- Epilogue: Letting go of hate. |
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Subject: | Ross, Loretta. Feminists > United States > Biography. Women, Black > United States > Biography. Cancel culture. Social justice. Communication. Social skills. Problem solving. |
Genre: | Autobiographies. Self-help publications. |
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Location | Call Number / Copy Notes | Barcode | Shelving Location | Status | Due Date |
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North Kansas City Public Library | 302 ROSS 2025 (Text) | 0001012580397 | Nonfiction New | Available | - |